No, I'm just kidding. But seriously, Happy New Year!
As we bring in 2015, we all take time to reflect on what we want to accomplish in the 365 days ahead. Mine is usually to increase the amount of pizza I can eat in one sitting, but this year, I've decided to dig a little deeper.
I've decided that I'm going to try and care less about what people think of me and care more about what I think of myself. I plan to address self-image, as well as certain personality traits I possess in later blog posts, but basically I'm a huge people-pleaser with low self-esteem. That horrible combination has led me to constantly search for others' approval for everything, and has ultimately made me feel as if I'm not in control of my own life.
This year, I want to find my own voice and stop searching desperately for approval of every decision I make. I've become so afraid to step out of my comfort zone or try new things out of fear of what others might think of me. This, I have found, is no way to live and I'm hoping 2015 will be the year I can finally change that. I will always strive to make others happy, but I also need to learn how to put myself first at times. Do you struggle with the same dilemma?
And, of course, living a healthier lifestyle and trying new things are also at the top of my to-do list (except chocolate is delicious and I love being boring).
WARNING: SHAMELESS SELF-PROMOTION AHEAD If you want to know what I think are the best ways to set and keep goals (new years resolutions, or otherwise) check back and read about it in the next blog post!
If any of you have gone through/are going through the same thing that I am and care to share any thoughts or advice, or if you want to share your New Years Resolutions, feel free to comment below and let me know what you think! Also, if you have any ideas about what you'd like me to address, you can leave those in the comments below, as well.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this, and I hope 2015 brings you all of the love, laughter and happiness in the world!
xo, Taylor
Hi Seester :)
ReplyDeleteMy new years resolutions:
1. Totally cliche, but get in shape for our vacation
2. Finish our book
Way proud of you!
Hi seester!
Delete1. You can do it!
2. We will do that, too!
Thank you, you da best!